| Femme fatale: April 2008 |
Singapore Slinger: San Francisco's inscrutable Ai-Li DieForHer: What were you doing when you first felt, "hey, i'd like to do this for real"? Mistress Ai-Li: The first time I knew I loved dominating men was when I tied one of my slave's balls up to the cross and made him worship my ass. I was standing just out of reach and to see him struggling and pulling on his own balls, causing himself pain just to worship me was delicious and empowering. DieForHer: What is it about Asian women, do you think, that brings men to their knees? Mistress Ai-Li: This is an interesting question... I believe there are numerous reasons why but I think one of the reasons is something I alluded to when I chose David Henry Hwang's M. Butterfly as my favorite femme fatale. Asian women are stereotyped as passive and exotic. The idea of someone who is seen as stereotypically passive as the dominant is exciting and even a bit more taboo. DieForHer: What percentage of the male population would you say is submissive... i.e., wants to be dominated, whether they're aware of that desire or not? Mistress Ai-Li: I believe a large percentage of the male population could be submissive if they allowed themselves to give up control. DieForHer: What percentage of women would you say are naturally dominant, again whether or not they're necessarily aware of it? Mistress Ai-Li: I also believe a large percentage of women are naturally dominant if given the opportunity. DieForHer: Would you like to have actual slaves someday? Mistress Ai-Li: I would love to own personal slaves one day. 
DieForHer: Describe your ideal slave (si vous plait)...Mistress Ai-Li: My ideal slave would live and die for me. He would be most concerned with what I wanted and how to please me. There would be no requests by him. He would completely trust my control, punishments and rewards. DieForHer: Women are less violent and more reliable than men. they are roughly equal in intelligence when both are sober, or not obsessed with sex -- but men are less sober and more obsessed, meaning typically, women are more intelligent. is there a good reason why women don't rule? Mistress Ai-Li: I believe the reasons why women aren't the ones in complete power are societal. Men to a large extent are still not ready to give up control and power to women on a political and systemic level. DieForHer: Do you believe in actual female rule in the future -- for real? Mistress Ai-Li: Absolutely! 
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